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Finished: The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold

04.08.06

This took me only a week to read, a record for me nowadays.

The first third of this book - Susie’s rape and death, the crumbling of her family, Mr. Harvey’s seeming invincibility - was almost too much for me. I wanted to put it down because it hurt too much to read. But I remembered the kind British lady returning the book to my pile saying she had too many copies and urging me to stick with it, so I did. It was so worth it.

The language is beautiful and wistful. It sometimes gets too ambitious with the tender poetics and twisty metaphors, but I forgave it. The overall theme of letting go and acceptance in the face of tragedy is something I’ve long been interested in cultivating for myself and just hopeful in seeing more in the world. Alice Sebold captured these themes so sweetly and lovingly, that I felt her words actually healing some old wounds I’ve carried around for a long time.

C slept all night in her big-girl bed!

04.08.06

She slept all night Thursday night and was so proud of herself. Last night, she woke called out for me. I stumbled into her room and offered to get into bed with her, thinking it was nearly dawn. Then I looked at the clock. 2:00am. It took us a while to get comfortable, but in the morning, I learned from Pete that C and I slept through a thunderstorm.

Anyway, progress is being made!